Your Online Guide to: Health Healthy Relationships Having Fun   Health Watch e-Book: Healthy Weight Reduction: Gaining Control                                                        Writing to Attract                                                      Personal Ad Lay-Out  Sitting down to write your Personal Ad...? Worried about Writer's Block....? Here are a number of questions to help you formulate a clear accurate depiction:              Who am I trying to attract? What kind of general impression do I want to leave about myself? How do I want to describe my Interests and Activities? (Am I outgoing...a couch potato...a weekend warrior...Am I a sports enthusiast...what kind of sports...Am I an arm chair traveler?)                     How do I want to describe my Personality traits? Be as specific as you can. Here are some descriptive ideas.... Warm, compassionate, outgoing, introverted, love variety, love specific interests, reserved, eager and interested. What kind of personality am I trying to attract? Do I want someone with other interests than myself so I can enjoy our differences? Do I want someone who has more of the same interests or do I want someone who is more diversified? Write down a description of the person you want to attract - Physical attributes: Emotional attributes and Intellectual attributes For Woman: Be as Clear and Honest as possible. Specify your own needs, wants, desires and do an Open and Honest appraisal of your own personality, hopes, dreams and expectation. Be Simple. Be Direct. Be Clear For Men: Same darn thing. You aren't advertising for a new house, new shoes, new car.... Your whole online experience will be so much more rewarding, straightforward, no hassle, if you just stick to the basics. Think about how you will sound from some one else's point of view and consider the most attractive way to present yourself                                                   Here are some  DO NOT DO THIS: !! Please do not start from a sexist, sexual or arrogant starting point. Most individuals will respond to humility and grace long before they will respond to come on's or egomania !! Please do not make erroneous statements about yourself on any level.... You are wonderful for who you are. You will attract someone who is loving, accepting and compatible because that person does exist and you deserve them. Nothing else needs to be said about that. !! That's it. To sum up: ! Be Direct !Be Clear !Be Honest !Describe specific personality traits !Describe specific interests !Describe pastimes and hobbies !Describe what kind of person you are hoping to attract !Be Gracious !Be Respectful !Show Humility !Show Enthusiasm !Be Positive...   !If you are concerned about whether you are ready for a commitment, then take a step back. If you are dealing with issues or concerns or old hurts from old relationships, get  Relationship Watch e-Book: Healthy Relationships: Communication with a Cause , excellent, easy Guide to Communication. Put your new effective knowledge into practice.     Be ready for a new relationship but be wise on your timing Be Ready for a new, exciting healthy adult relationship Have Fun